Diet culture is all around us. It influences how we speak and exercise, what we eat and wear, and even…
If you’re not satisfied with your weight and your body, I’d be willing to bet that you are pretty excited when a new diet book comes around promising you the answer at last. But, here’s the big weight loss secret…
Most of what you need to know, you already know. It’s bridging the gap between what you know and what you do that’s essential for success.
There may be are several choices you make every day that you honestly know are not supporting your fat loss goals, or even are just not making you feeling very well.
There’s the gap.
You know these things aren’t helping, but you’re still doing them. You’re not alone. What diet book (and I’m willing to bet you’ve read a few) has ever taught you how to deconstruct a habit and how to manage your willpower? These are tools you need as much as a fork and a dumbbell when it comes to losing weight and changing your body.
1. Understand how this new habit will help you get your WANT. Identify and write out at least 2 ways it supports your WANT.
2. Tap into your WHY power and utilize your anchor at the start and end of each day, as well as during any tough moments.
3. Plan in detail how you will accomplish this habit. Use if-then planning as you lay out your intention for this new habit.
4. Troubleshoot challenges and obstacles you’ll go through on your journey to pull this off. Think about a minimum of two challenges you’ll undergo while successfully practicing this new habit. Use if-then planning here if it seems appropriate. Practice optimism light (stay positive but plan for trouble).
5. Optimize your willpower.
6. Manage progress by comparing to your old self, not someone else. How much better are you doing than you would’ve done before?
1. Identify the habit and tune in to its reminder, routine, and reward.
2. Identify the payoff of this habit and be willing to give it up. Identify and write out at least 2 reasons you are willing to give it up and how it helps you get your WANT.
3. In your habit loop (reminder, routine, reward), replace the routine. The reminder and the reward stay the same, routine is all that changes. As you change your routine, utilize if-then* planning to implement. And, lay out in detail your new routine.
4. Troubleshoot challenges and obstacles you’ll have in completing this. Think about a minimum of 2 challenges to you successfully practicing this new habit. Use if-then planning here if it seems appropriate. Practice optimism light (stay positive but plan for trouble).
5. Optimize your WILLpower.
6. Manage progress by comparing to your old self, not someone else. How much better are you doing that your old self?
Take this simple approach to tackle doing more of what you need to do, or to transform an unhelpful habit.
I know there are a lot of ideas in this post…it’s BIG! I’ll keep unpacking these and teaching you more tricks for better willpower, if-then planning, and more, as we go.
For now, just try it out and get wise to how your habits are getting in your own way, and know you can change, you just need a system to bridge that gap between knowing better and doing better. Remember to only work one habit at a time and that the advice of, “it takes 30 days to change a habit”, is an outdated idea.
What is the one habit you’d like to focus on starting today? Some habits take a few days while others may take months to take hold. When you feel solid with a new habit, go ahead and try another. Avoid what typical diets and fat loss plans have you do: take certain supplements, eat a very specific way, avoid a bunch of foods, eat every 3 hours, do a certain workout 3 x per week, do only these stretches, drink these juices, drink more water, and go to be earlier, etc, etc.
YIKES! Who can remember all of those things? Do one thing at a time. Let the changes take hold, then take the next step. You’ll find some are way easier than others and that as you do more and more of this behavior change, it gets easier and change happens faster.
But, please, heed this advice: one thing at a time (especially to start). Slow and steady does indeed win this race. Good luck!
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